Veterans are used to a life of service. When they separate from the military they often feel lost without a sense of purpose. The connectedness they felt with their military brothers and sisters now gives way to feelings of disconnect in their relationships and community.
Many find it difficult to re-integrate back into civilian life. It’s common for returning soldiers with PTSD to have antisocial behaviors and isolate themselves. Many battle with anxiety, depression, hypervigilance and a host of other symptoms. By giving veterans an opportunity to take their skill set and leadership abilities from the battleground and transfer them to the "playground" gives them an outlet to engage in a meaningful mission again. Becoming a mentor through our play activities affords them a renewed sense of purpose. |
In the military, a battle buddy is your battleground partner with whom you accomplish a common mission. Battle buddies are always ready to assist one another. In our “playground”, we match kids one-on-one with veteran mentors. They become buddies of play. Connecting with others who have similar struggles can be very comforting as they offer unconditional acceptance to each other. In addition, being of service to another individual allows them to step outside their own issues to help someone else. Giving back to the community can be very empowering.
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We advocate for inclusion, and everyone, regardless of their abilities or disabilities are welcome to join us. We find that combining all segments of the population fosters relationships built on understanding, acceptance and trust. Many of the players include kids with autism, special needs, physical challenges, those who have parents in the military, kids who feel they don’t have a voice due to emotional challenges that stem from things like being bullied, having a childhood illness, undergoing a custody battle, having a military parent deployed or a myriad of other situations.
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We provide a safe environment that is supervised, but allows the child the freedom to explore. Kids are allowed to go at their own pace while they get familiar with their surroundings. We begin in their comfort zone and branch out from there. They can choose between various play stations, or create their own game. For kids who tend to get sensory overload, or prefer to be quiet, a craft and game table is provided so every child feels included.
Veteran mentors first follow the child’s lead so the child feels empowered by making the decisions. The child is encouraged to initiate the play activities, explore their creativity and awareness, but if they don’t, the mentor can make suggestions. Socialization, creativity and discovery are encouraged through free play in a sensory-rich environment. We also encourage kids to interact and play with each other which establishes engagement and new friendships. Laughter is always part of our play sessions. This is a great inclusive program for children because they gain independence, confidence and self-worth while being coached by war heroes. |
Studies have shown that physiological changes occur when people touch dogs: a drop in heart rate, lower blood pressure, as well as a reduction in stress, depression, anxiety and isolation.
Kids with special needs and military with PTSD who are withdrawn often come out of their shell when in the presence of dogs. Making eye contact with a dog releases a hormone called oxytocin (the hug hormone). It has been shown that eye contact can produce a calming effect and improve relationships. In fact, the mere presence of a dog can improve psychological health and well-being. Dogs also help with grounding, self-esteem, self-worth, emotional reciprocity, sensory overload, random behaviors and more. Because dogs don't judge, kids are able to feel unconditional love and acceptance. |
Some of the play activities include silly games, outdoor games, relay races, agility, obstacle courses, sand play, team building games, Sensory games, dog training games, story telling, sharing and more.
Kids also work with the dogs, teaching them new behaviors. In addition, we educate both the kids and veterans on canine body language and what the dogs are communicating with no words needed. Some of the kids are non-verbal, but that doesn’t mean they don’t want to play! Play is often a way for them to express themselves. Many connections are made in silence. |